One Tree Hill Season 3 Episode 3

Mouth: Hey coach(refering to Whitey), erm could i ask you one more question? Off the record.

Coach(Whitey) nodds his head.

Mouth: How do you deal with losing someone you love?

Coach(Whitey) hesitates for a few seconds then says "Shut the door son, pull up a chair."

That is what i need to know.