if i said your beautiful, would you believe me ?

if i said your beautiful, would you believe me? if i said i'll always be there for you, would u believe me? if i said there is none other like you and i'm only interested in you, would you believe me? i bet you would but you would not be interested in me. reason being, these are mushy heartfelt words that a nice guy would use. one important lesson that i learnt this year from Ban Kok is that nice guys are considered boring and weak. the old saying "Nan ren bu huai nu ren bu ai."

English Translation

"Women love bad guys." i find it very strange. somehow ironic. normally, when you hear what a women wants in a man, she says all the good qualities(which nice guys have) but in the end she goes for a bad guy. someone who is clearly lacking in all the characteristics that she wanted. a friend of mine told me that sometime back, she was together with this guy that was rather "irritating" in the sense that he would make fun and ridicule her but after they became an item, he stopped his irritants and weeks later they broke up. i ask her why, she said because he became boring. if you still don't undertand, let me spell it out for you, she broke up with him because he became nice and nice equates to boring.

i for one cannot comprehend the above. is the challenge to tame a bad guy so great that women would prefer a bad guy to a nice guy. then when the metamorphosis takes place, this guy who has changed for the better becomes boring and obsolete to women. like a child who finds her doctor barbie doll boring and chucks it aside asking her parents for a new one, it is the same way that women treat men. they play with men, treating men like objects without feelings and it seems that it is alright for them to do this. if a man was to do this, he would be labeled a jerk/bastard anything that is deem fit to describe that promiscuous character.

before you women start labeling men as jerks and sorts please think about those women who do the same thing men. by the way, i was refering to some women not all, i'm not a generalising bastard. if you fit the description of "playing" women, then great job cause i believe what goes around comes around.

P.S. i think i woke up on the wrong side of my bed.
P.P.S i think i woke up on the wrong side of my bed on purpose.

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